12 Ways to Show Your Wife That You Love Her (Hint- It’s Not What You Think!)

Successful marriages are rarely storybook romances. Marriage in the real world can be tough, and must usually be guided by logic and practicality as opposed to emotion and desire.

However, this doesn’t mean that emotion and desire should completely go out the window. Unfortunately, all too often, that’s exactly what happens. And in many of these situations, it happens because the husband shows his love for his wife.

Are you stuck in a bit of a rut in your marriage? Not sure of how to show love to your wife? You can show your wife love by utilizing the following tips.

Show Your Wife You Love Her with These Tips

There are more than a few ways to show your wife you love her. However, we can’t cover them all. Therefore, we’re only going to give you 12.

They are as follows.

1. Show Her Affection on a Regular Basis

Nothing kills a marriage quicker than a lack of affection. Affection is the fuel needed to keep a romance burning. If it’s lost, the fire will become extinguished, and the passion will be thrown to the wayside.

It’s of utmost importance that you show your wife affection on a regular basis. It’s not enough to only take her on a date once a month. Marital affection needs to be continuous, and it needs to feel natural.

Tell her you love her. Kiss her when you wake up and before you go to sleep. Let her know that she’s on your mind and that she’s still the one you want to be with.

2. Cook Her a Nice Meal

As a man, there’s a good chance that you don’t cook often. And if you do, there’s a good chance that you’re just throwing frozen pizzas into the oven.

If this is not true of you, you can just disregard this tip. If it is true of you, you need to listen up.

The fact of the matter is that women love a man who can cook. Your wife is likely no exception to this. In fact, if you never cook, your wife probably wishes that you would.

This is why you should try cooking a nice meal for your wife. Make sure that it’s something she likes, and make sure to give it your all.

If it tastes great, she’ll be very impressed. If it tastes . . . less than great, she’ll still appreciate that you put in the effort. After all, cooking a meal for your wife shows her that you care about her.

3. Listen to What She Has to Say

While it’s not true of all men, it is true of many of them: men possess sub-par listening skills. It’s not necessarily their fault. In fact, much of it is biological.

Nonetheless, it always seems to create a chasm between men and the women in their lives. So, while you can’t be expected to change your poor listening habits overnight, you should be putting in some effort.

Make sure to actually listen to what your wife is saying. Make eye contact. Put down what you’re doing and let her finish her sentences.

And then, over time, prove that you have listened to her through your actions. She’ll appreciate that you’re trying.

4. Do the Dishes!

In many marriages, chores become a point of contention. After all, who wants to spend all of their free time doing things around the house?

While many men already help around the house on a frequent basis, others, unfortunately, do not. If you don’t help out with the daily household chores, you need to start.

You would be surprised at how excited your wife would get over you doing the dishes just once. The reason for this is simple: you’re showing her that you respect her and her time. You’re showing her that she’s not there to be your surrogate mother.

5. Surprise Her with a Date

Marriages can be grueling. The monotony of life can cause a marriage to become stale in a fairly short amount of time. This is why you need to break the monotony up with a little fun every once in a while.

Want to really break the monotony in a big way? Surprise your wife with a spontaneous date. The sudden change in routine will up the serotonin in your wife’s brain, bringing a jolt of excitement to her life.

6. Engage in Some of Her Hobbies

Do you want to really support your wife? You can easily do so by simply participating in some of her hobbies. This doesn’t mean that you have to take the hobby on as your own, it just means that you need to show some interest in something that your wife enjoys.

For instance, maybe your wife goes to the gym religiously? You don’t need to go to the gym with her every time she goes, but once or twice a week could help strengthen the bond between the two of you.

The most important thing is that you’re showing some sort of interest in the things that she’s interested in.

7. Express Yourself

Not only do men tend to have trouble listening to their wives, but they also tend to have trouble expressing themselves to their wives. It’s no real secret that men can be emotionally distant.

A great way to show your wife that you love her is by opening up every once in a while and telling her what’s really on your mind. You don’t have to be an absolute open book, but you should be able to express general feelings of sadness, depression, and happiness.

Most women connect to others through empathy. If you give your wife a chance to be empathetic with you, your bound will grow stronger and stronger.

8. Buy Her a Personalized Gift

Another great way to show appreciation for your wife is to buy her a personalized gift. This doesn’t need to be for a birthday or for Christmas. Just buy her a gift to buy her a gift.

While there are all types of personalized gifts you could buy for your wife, one of the best ideas is to buy a gift which incorporates a photo of you two. Photos can be put on everything from mugs, to pillows, to canvases, and more.

Check out the 13 best photo gifts right now.

9. Try Sexting

For many couples, one of the great challenges of marriage is keeping sexual intimacy alive. Considering the fact that intimacy is vitally important to a marriage, this poses a bit of a problem.

While there are a number of things you could do to spice up your sex life with your wife, you might consider trying sexting. Though sexting might seem a little awkward to you at first, once you both get used to it, it can work terrifically as foreplay.

10. Stay off Your Phone When You’re with Her

Phones are a detriment to all types of relationships. However, no type of relationship is more negatively affected by the phone than the romantic relationship. In other words, chronic phone use is a marriage destroyer.

This is why, when you’re spending quality time with your wife, you need to stay off of your phone. Using your phone while with her is a major sign of disrespect, one which indicates that she’s boring you and not worth your full, undivided attention.

If this type of behavior continues, resentment will build, and love will die.

11. Show Her That She’s a Priority

When you marry someone, you essentially promise to make that person a priority in your life. While you can still go out and have fun with your friends, you shouldn’t do so at the expense of your wife. You still need to spend time with her and have fun with her.

You don’t always have to go out drinking after work on the weekends. You can sometimes stay in and find something interesting to do with the woman you married.

12. Support Her

Other than affection, there’s nothing more vital to a marriage than support. Romantic partners must support each other. If they don’t, resentment builds and eventually blows up into something more sinister.

Supporting your wife is a little more complex than what a lot of men realize. It doesn’t only mean voicing approval in the things that she pursues, it means showing up and showing that you really care.

Let’s say that your wife is a musician. Not only should you compliment her playing ability, but you should also physically show up and support her at her shows.

In the short-term, you can get by with a lack of support, However, in the long run, support can make a break a relationship.

Looking to Be a Better Husband or Father?

For most men, communication is a failing. Fortunately, we can improve our communication skills by simply trying. By utilizing at least one of the tips discussed above, you should be able to show your wife that you love her.

Are you looking for more tips on how to be a better husband or father? If so, Middle Class Dad has you covered. This site is loaded with information on marriage, fatherhood, home repair, and much, much more.

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Jeff Campbell

Jeff Campbell is a husband, father, martial artist, budget-master, Disney-addict, musician, and recovering foodie having spent over 2 decades as a leader for Whole Foods Market. Click to learn more about me

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