How to Win a Woman’s Heart


Love is one of the most important things in life. Loving a person and having that person love you back is an amazing feeling. What happens, however, when we can’t be sure of someone’s feelings towards us? How can you make sure that the woman of our dreams notices you and takes you into consideration as a prospective partner?

Here are four practical tips that you can use to make sure you win that woman’s heart:

Take care of the small details

Everything counts, from a birthday card on her special day, a rose delivered to her house, or a heartfelt message when she’s having a bad day. It doesn’t have to be big gesture, but it certainly has to be genuine. The aim is to show her that you care, you support her and that you’ll be there for her.

Women of the 21st century don’t really need a partner to support themselves like they perhaps did in the past, back when they couldn’t even open bank accounts by themselves, or their work options were very limited. However, they will surely appreciate someone having their back when something doesn’t go to plan.

Speak to her

There aren’t many more important tips than this when it comes to flirting with someone: if you don’t speak to her, she simply won’t know you like her in the first place.

Humans have a primal desire to communicate, to speak and be heard. Women are no different, and most of them will appreciate an interesting talk, or even some casual chit-chat. The important part, however, is to not only speak, but also listen to what she has to say.

Always be honest

If there’s anything women loathe, it is a lying man. If you really want to conquer that girl, you need to make sure to always be sincere with her.

Women are usually particularly good at remembering the little details, and they’ll remember every small thing you tell them. If you happen to lie to them, they’ll surely catch the lie. There’s little hope for a future romance if this is the case.

Work on yourself

Not everything is about the other person. You also need to work on yourself and pursue the goals and ambitions you would like your perfect match to be working towards.

These don’t have to be just career goals: giving more to the community, being more empathic or improving relationships with friends will create great strides. Any form of self-improvement can have a huge impact on how the other person perceives you. Don’t aim to only receive; a relationship, even one that hasn’t officially started yet, is also about giving.

Whatever you do to win that woman’s heart, make sure to always be honest about your feelings. If you’re sincere, the right person will find her way to you.

Jeff Campbell

Jeff Campbell is a father, martial artist, budget-master, Disney-addict, musician, and recovering foodie having spent over 2 decades as a leader for Whole Foods Market. Click to learn more about me

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